Maturity vs. Immaturity

 Maturity is the ability to make a decision and stand by it no matter what. 

Immature people spend their lives exploring endless possibilities and then doing nothing in the end. Action requires courage. Without courage, little is accomplished in life. 

You call me immature, 

for the way I talk but that is maturity for me and that is my way of talking in a sweet and soft manner. 

You call me immature, 

for how stupidly I laugh at my own jokes but that's what gives me happiness and for me, when to laugh and where to laugh is maturity and I very well know where to do so. 

You call me immature, '

for how easily I get hurt , cry like a baby and then rub my eyes making them red but you don't know the real STRONG ME existing inside, it's just that I am soft-hearted doesn't mean that people can keep hurting me, play with my feelings and use me. Not reacting or hurting them back is maturity in my dictionary. 

You label me as an immature person, 

for how angry I get at one moment and smile at another. But, maturity lies in not being able to stay angry for a long period of time. 

You can call me immature but trust me, I am learning through my immaturity and will teach you all better than anyone else what maturity actually means in today's world. 

 

Realization

 Self- realization must be a synonym for life itself. 

Your own self- realization is the greatest service you can provide to the world. 

You have to grow from the inside out. No-one can teach you, no-one can help you grow. There is no other teacher but your own soul. 

What others feel about you is not important until it coincides with what you feel about yourself and realize your worth. 

And once you realize your worth and start growing up, you need not prove it to anyone, you will eventually understand you don't need somebody else to fill/feel the brokenness inside your heart. Your heart has enough love to make you whole again. 

A fantastic realization will be the day you stand up for yourself, speak golden words of maturity and realize that you are unique in this world!

Friendship vs. Relationship

 You give your whole heart to your love and they break it but you give your broken heart to a friend and they make it. 

One day, both love and friendship met. Love asked "why do you exist when I already do"?

Friendship responded with a smile: " To put a smile where you leave tears and this response left love speechless. 

LOVE

"L"- 12th letter of alphabets

"O"- 15th 

"V"- 22nd

"E"- 5th 

The total of LOVE is 54

But similarly, 

"F"- 6th letter 

"R"- 18th 

"I"- 9th 

"E"- 5th 

"N"- 14th 

"D"- 4th 

"S"- 19th 

"H"- 8th 

"I"- 9th 

"P"- 16th 

Total- 108 which is exactly twice of LOVE- 54

So, the value of friendship is way more than the value of love. 

Friendship has the ability to mend broken hearts but love doesn't have this ability. 

Friendship means forgiveness and getting back everytime single time but in love, once it's OVER, it's permanently OVER, there is no forgiveness. 

Loving somebody with all your heart is relationship- the connection between 2 hearts is relationship 

But, the relationship between heart and heartbeat is friendship. 

Relationship is body whereas friendship is soul

Relationship is tree, friendship is the root that builds the tree. 

Friends are there for you when love ceases to be, they will never fail you or make you feel low when love does. They might not be by your side all throughout, but for sure, they will never EVER abandon you. In all the happiness it brings to your life, friendship is indeed many times better than getting your heart broken. 

The Beauty of Rain

 Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass... it's learning to dance in the rain. 

Life is full of beauty. Acknowledge it. Notice the smiling faces, the children and their dancing hearts. Smell the rain and feel the wind. 

Live your life to the fullest potential and fight for your dreams. 

The clouds are full and they have big news: it's time for things to grow and prosper. 

Their whispers fill the sky with a calming breeze which makes children's hearts swing. 

Their low murmurs rumble like thunder. 

They pour out a welcome to spring and pleasing rain once they get heavy. 

 

The Most Beautiful Eyes

Eyes are captivatingly beautiful not because of the color but because of the words and emotions they hold within them. 

My eyes are an ocean in which dreams are reflected. 

Every indiviuals eyes tell a story, all you have to do is just learn how to read them.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries or the way she combs her hair. It is seen in her eyes,because that is the doorway to her heart that is pure, the place where love resides. 

Eyes speak more than a mouth and they can portray all the feelings.

The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears in them- The vision of life is much better once pain is erased and tears roll down the cheeks. 

Self-love

 It starts with liking,respecting and thinking of yourself in positive ways. 

The most beautiful love story I have seen and felt, it was when I finally learned to love and groom myself. 

To fall in love with yourself is the very first secret to happiness. 

Make yourself a priority atleast once in a while. It's not selfish, it is necessary. 

Love yourself enough to set boundaries to be perfect and look more beautiful as change is ETERNAL!

You are the one who teaches people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept. IT ALL BEGINS WITH YOU! 

Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself for your own mistakes, for only as we have the right attitude towards ourselves can we have the right attitude towards others. 

No-one is YOU, YOU ARE UNIQUE AND THAT'S YOUR SUPERPOWER!! 

Love yourself for who you are, and trust me, if you are happy from within, you are the most beautiful person, and your smile is your best asset.

💜YOURSELF AND💚 LIFE!

Our Puppies

 Little ears as soft as silk,

Cute little teeth as white as milk, 

Little noses cool and beautiful. 

Little eyes that blink and wink, 

Little adorable bodies round and fat, 

Little hearts as pure as gold,

Little tails that wag with love and happiness.

Live as puppies do, like everything is an adventure and keep smiling and stay happy like they always do and keep you happy!!

Friendship beyond love

   Don't you think 'I' refer to him as a friend and 'HE' refers me as a friend??

Is it our mistake being a boy and a girl? 

Can't a boy and a girl be friends till eternity? Yes, they can be friends- it totally depends on how they think about themselves and the society doesn't have any right to put false accusations on them and blame them. 

We have been together,dreamt together,if we must live separately and not as friends forever then what is that relationship? 

Is there any relationship between the tree and the bird sitting on it and chirping all day, is it wrong to build a nest without that?

Is there no friendship between the river and the bank, is it even possible to describe it?

If there is no image to appear to the eyes... will the society defy the soul that keeps us alive as comrades for life. 

If there is no sound to hear to the ears, will the society defy our heartbeats that are uttering every second that we are camaraderies. 

If the feeling can't be expressed by words, does it mean such silence is not worthy enough?- If the society thinks so then you are clearly wrong- that silence in our friendship is what kept us bound and it speaks tonnes. 

When the tide touches the shore, then is it fair to restrict it?

Between every friendship, there is love and that's a fact!

That kind of love exists between 2 companions(a boy and a girl). 

In this kind of love, we don't expect anything from one another, this special kind of love is known as friendship. 

If I had spoken to a girl and if she wanted to be my companion- the society wouldn't say 'NO'  but when it comes to a boy and he asks me the exact same thing, why do you deny? 

Just because a 1000 eyes are staring at us and the society is misunderstanding us for being close, our relationship can never be altered!!!!

Brother and sister, mother and son, father and daughter, the society which is accepting all these as true relationships, why can't it accept a boy and a girl's friendship?

Ever since I was born and I called mother as mother, it is equally true that the thread between us can never be broken. 

Just because we are in a society that can't take a boy and a girl as friends forever- our friendship was never understood. 

Even our friendship is an unbreakable relation!!

This friendship is very close to both their hearts. 

There will be some pain if 2 people get parted in any relationship but we have cherished all the previous memories we had and kept ourselves and our surroundings happy- that's the power of a guy and a girl's friendship. Hope atleast now the society understands this friendship's importance and beauty. 

Time, this society and distance are never barriers for friendship.

Though bodies are different, both the friends' lives and this beautiful journey is one!

Whatever the challenges of male-female friendship, one should know their limits and doesn't have to listen to the societies' views because they both know what they are and that need not be proven in the societies' eyes.