Saturday, May 1, 2021

Friendship beyond love

   Don't you think 'I' refer to him as a friend and 'HE' refers me as a friend??
Is it our mistake being a boy and a girl? 
Can't a boy and a girl be friends till eternity? Yes, they can be friends- it totally depends on how they think about themselves and the society doesn't have any right to put false accusations on them and blame them. 
We have been together,dreamt together,if we must live separately and not as friends forever then what is that relationship? 
Is there any relationship between the tree and the bird sitting on it and chirping all day, is it wrong to build a nest without that?
Is there no friendship between the river and the bank, is it even possible to describe it?
If there is no image to appear to the eyes... will the society defy the soul that keeps us alive as comrades for life. 
If there is no sound to hear to the ears, will the society defy our heartbeats that are uttering every second that we are camaraderies. 
If the feeling can't be expressed by words, does it mean such silence is not worthy enough?- If the society thinks so then you are clearly wrong- that silence in our friendship is what kept us bound and it speaks tonnes. 
When the tide touches the shore, then is it fair to restrict it?
Between every friendship, there is love and that's a fact!
That kind of love exists between 2 companions(a boy and a girl). 
In this kind of love, we don't expect anything from one another, this special kind of love is known as friendship. 
If I had spoken to a girl and if she wanted to be my companion- the society wouldn't say 'NO'  but when it comes to a boy and he asks me the exact same thing, why do you deny? 
Just because a 1000 eyes are staring at us and the society is misunderstanding us for being close, our relationship can never be altered!!!!
Brother and sister, mother and son, father and daughter, the society which is accepting all these as true relationships, why can't it accept a boy and a girl's friendship?
Ever since I was born and I called mother as mother, it is equally true that the thread between us can never be broken. 
Just because we are in a society that can't take a boy and a girl as friends forever- our friendship was never understood. 
Even our friendship is an unbreakable relation!!
This friendship is very close to both their hearts. 
There will be some pain if 2 people get parted in any relationship but we have cherished all the previous memories we had and kept ourselves and our surroundings happy- that's the power of a guy and a girl's friendship. Hope atleast now the society understands this friendship's importance and beauty. 
Time, this society and distance are never barriers for friendship.
Though bodies are different, both the friends' lives and this beautiful journey is one!
Whatever the challenges of male-female friendship, one should know their limits and doesn't have to listen to the societies' views because they both know what they are and that need not be proven in the societies' eyes. 

 
 

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