Taking Advantage

 When people know you are trustworthy, they have a tendancy, to take advantage of you. 

This of course isn't fair at all. 

With the confidence that they trust you, you tend to share everything with them, they tend to share everything with you causing unneccesary ruckus and fights among people and you also tend to do more than your share. 

You have to assert yourself at the very beginning. If you don't, you will always be at their command. 

What it actually comes down to is that if you are not happy, you have only yourself to blame for always doing more than what is needed and being extra kind. 

Once you take a stand, control your emotions, feelings and actions, it's another ball game.