Thursday, December 3, 2020

The strength of a woman- A man

 

Men definitely do play a vital role in making our lives beautiful. They are the people who stand by the side and observe all our actions keenly just to correct us and protect us from any dangers. Even in the family, fathers tend to establish challenge, risk and initiative which makes their child or children very independent and risk- taking. The male contribution is a plus to the relationships and also is helpful in resolving issues.

Men are different from women and they need to be. Those differences need to be valued, not just ironed out of existence. It is our responsibility to value those strengths and support them the male way. It is high time to recognize and honour the contributions and sacrifices that a man makes for his family and the society. No man to understand a woman or anybody for that matter, no safety and protection for a woman.

In a family, a man is the bread winner of the household however, a man’s key role is to take care of and safeguard the family. The main responsibilities of a man that need to be respected are:

Ø A provider: It is believed that men need to be great providers to aid the family financially and to reduce the burden on his wife if she’s working or a housewife. Also, to suffice for the everyday expenses and his children’s well-being.

Ø  A protector: He helps, protects and aids his wife, daughter, mother, etc. For example, if his mother is unwell, he takes the responsibility of staying with her every second and the responsibility of giving her all the required medicines and aiding her to do her daily chores.

Ø A leader and a person who inspires a million others to be leaders and risk- bearers.

Ø A teacher: He gives good examples and encourages his children to become better and better each day. He also imbibes values in them and helps them in studies and in all the ways possible.

The man of the house will share in the daily chores and the upkeep of the house. The role of a father is simple yet beautiful in every child’s life: They are the pillars of a child’s emotional well-being. They also provide a sense of security. An involved father also promotes immense inner strength and growth.

 “There is a soldier in every man”. A woman will never forget a man who encouraged her financially, and stood by her side in tough times. It is not just the soldiers who have character and courage integrity. There are innumerable heroes among us who are not recognized but are very famous and knowledgeable and it is just a matter of supporting and encouraging them just the way they do every second.

For me, my soldier is definitely my father. He taught me everything, he also gave me enough space and encouragement to pursue my dreams. Infact, to be honest, he was the one who played a huge role in my mother’s success in everyway possible. No words to describe the role he played in my success, without him, firstly, my life would have been incomplete and secondly, I wouldn’t be the person I am today and I wouldn’t have the recognition I have right now in my life!! Forget batman or any other cartoon character for that matter, when I really think about what I want to be when I grow up, I want to grow up to be like my dad- awesome in every way possible, ready to lend a helping hand and a shoulder to cry upon anytime and anywhere and just like him, I want to be able to manage a million tasks at a time- MY FATHER, MY SUPERHERO💙!!

We are born alone; we live alone and we die alone. The only thing that creates an illusion that we are not alone is the love and friendship a man   shows in life. Coming to friendship, when a man becomes a friend, he can be the most annoying as well as the most caring person in one’s life. A male friend shows affection and care just like a father does.

A MAN DOES WHAT HE MUST IN SPITE OF ALL HIS PERSONAL CONSEQUENCES,OBSTACLES, PRESSURES AND DANGERS- THAT IS THE POWER OF A MAN- RESPECT THAT AND VALUE IT BECAUSE IT MUST BE💜☺!!!

2 comments:

  1. From birth to death every girl child faces a lot of obstacles and they didn't grown in comfort zones...... Its a god gift to face such consequences...

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