When you give importance to people they think that you are always free but they don't understand that you make yourself available for them every time.
When too much of importance and priority is given to someone, your value in their life is lost.
Sometimes its just that you should distance yourself from people. If they care, they will notice. If not, you know where you really stand.
There always comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans being too much available for people who wouldn't even jump puddles to help you when you need it the most.
If you spend too long holding onto the one who treats you like an option, you will miss the one who truly from the heart treats you like a priority.
Never give too much priority or importance to anyone in your life, a small change in your behaviour hurts you a lot and kills you from inside.
Try to survive your life on your own never depend on others. It's your life not theirs.
There are 3 things in life that leave and never return: WORDS, TIME AS WELL AS OPPORTUNITIES. Therefore, value whoever values you and don't treat people who treats you like an option as a priority.
I always used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone, but later I realized it is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.
People will say something or the other, its their business to talk but your business is to do the right thing always and treat them just like they treat you and never make them a priority.
Distance builds relationships, you have captured the essence of this little reality very well. People who take advantage our goodness should be kept at bay.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much uncle!!
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